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Posted by TheFashionablePartner34. Found on reddit by Nicoltyler
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Ok you all, I have a serious need, and could really use some help.
I’m (M34), and my partner (M34) is a cop. We’ve worked together for years, and he used to look like he stepped off the cover of GQ—always sharp and stylish. But lately, his fashion sense has taken a serious nosedive, and it’s driving me nuts.
He’s started wearing baggy clothes that look two sizes too big for him, and he’s grown a mustache. Some days, the mustache looks nice and even a bit sexy (not that I’m into him that way or anything). But 90 percent of the time, it’s ungroomed, scraggly, and just plain awful.
The worst part is the bowling shirts. We don’t even bowl, but that’s all he wears now. These shirts are loud, tacky, and look like they were pulled from the back of a discount bin. He used to have such great taste, and I can’t figure out what happened. It’s like he’s given up on looking good.
I really hate his new look, and it’s hard to see someone who used to be so stylish turn into a fashion disaster. He used to wear well-fitted suits, crisp dress shirts, and stylish shoes. His hair was always perfectly groomed, and he took pride in his appearance. Now, it’s like he’s a completely different person, and it’s affecting how I see him both personally and professionally.
To make matters worse, his change in appearance is impacting our work. People used to take him seriously because he looked the part of a competent, put-together cop. Now, I feel like we’re not getting the same respect. It’s affecting our dynamic, and I miss the days when we both looked sharp and professional.
I want to tell him that his fashion sense sucks, but I don’t want to hurt his feelings or come off as a jerk. I care about him a lot and want to help him get back to his old self. I’m not sure how to approach this without causing tension between us.
Does anyone have any advice on how to approach this? Should I be direct or try a more subtle approach? Maybe suggest a shopping trip or give him some new clothes as a gift? I just want to help him dress better and maybe find out why he changed his style so drastically.
Thanks in advance for any ideas!
– TheFashionablePartner34
